Toilet training is an important milestone - and every child’s journey is different. At Fame Preschool, we take a gentle, supportive approach, helping children (and families!) feel confident and relaxed as they learn this new skill.
Here’s a simple guide to spotting the signs of readiness, what’s typical, and how to support your child through the process.
Signs your child might be ready:
Every child develops in their own time, but you may notice these signs around ages 2-3
Staying dry for longer periods (2+ hours)
Showing interest in the toilet or copying others
Telling you when they’ve done a wee or poo
Disliking wearing wet or dirty nappies
Being able to pull pants up and down with a bit of help
Starting to communicate when they need to go
If you see several of these signs, it might be time to begin introducing the idea of using the toilet.
What’s typical during toilet learning
It’s completely normal for progress to be gradual. Most children master wee's before poos, and daytime control usually comes before night-time dryness.
The process can take several weeks to several months depending on your child’s confidence, temperament, and physical readiness. Some children move quickly once they’re ready, while others take more time - both are normal.
You might also notice some steps forward and steps back - for example, a child who’s been using the toilet might suddenly start having accidents again. This often happens when their brain is busy learning something new, like talking, climbing, or counting. It’s not a setback - just part of how children grow. With gentle consistency and reassurance, they soon get back on track.
How to support your child at home:
Start slow. Talk about the toilet and what it’s for. Let them flush, choose their own potty, or read fun books about toilet training, make it part of everyday conversation.
Use positive language. Praise effort, not just success - “You’re learning!” or “Good trying!” works wonders.
Dress for success. Easy-up clothes help children feel more independent.
Build routines. Encourage sitting on the toilet after meals or before bed.
Avoid pressure. Setbacks are normal! Stay calm and consistent.
Working together with your child’s teachers
At Fame Preschool, we work closely with parents during toilet training. Our teachers use consistent language, gentle reminders, and positive encouragement.
If you’re starting the process at home, let us know - we can support your child’s routine at preschool, celebrate progress, and share what’s working well. Toilet training is a partnership, and together we help children succeed at their own pace.
Remember: every child gets there in their own time. With patience, consistency, and teamwork, your little one will feel proud and independent before you know it!
Talk to our teaching team if you’d like support or advice.